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I have gone back and forth on how to do this. How does one tastefully use the F word? Well the simple answer is, you can’t. You should erase that word from your vocabulary. No it’s not that F word, it’s FAT. Yep, you heard it here first, get rid of the word fat. There is no way to use it without being derogatory; and most of the time, it hurts someone’s feelings.
The worst part is, I am guilty of doing it too. I can think of countless times where I looked in the mirror and thought, “ugh I am so fat!”. Even worse, I have thought I am not enough because of what I look like; and you know what, I am TIRED of it! Im tired of seeing other women look down on themselves, tired of people judging one another based off looks, and most of all I’m tired of the f word. It’s a nasty, repulsive, sickening word that no one should use.
I have always been labeled as a big girl, chubby, or big boned, and finally I’m okay with that. I am bigger than a size 2, but beauty comes in all shapes and sizes. I am now confident saying I am enough. He made us the way we are supposed to be. No one is perfect, but that’s what makes us who we are. Be kind to yourself and to others. You deserve better than the f word. You are beautiful, stunning, and gorgeous, because YOU are enough.
“She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.” –Proverbs 31:26
You ain’t Fat. Skin and bones isn’t attractive. So you go girl and conquer the world.